Conflict vs. Bullying: What’s the Difference?

 

Bullying is different from Conflict in this way - Conflict is a disagreement or argument in which both sides express their views, whereas Bullying is a negative behavior directed by someone exerting power and control over another person.

Bullying is when someone aggressively uses their “power” to target another individual with repeated, unwanted words or actions. Those targeted are hurt either physically or emotionally and may have a hard time stopping what is happening to them.

In normal Conflict, children self-monitor their behavior. They read cues to know if lines are crossed, and then modify their behavior in response. Children guided by empathy usually realize they have hurt someone and will want to stop their negative behavior.

On the other hand, children intending to cause harm and whose behavior goes beyond normal conflict will continue their behavior even when they know it is hurting someone. 

Our goal is to create a world without bullying. For bullying prevention resources for K-12 youth, families, and educators, visit Pacer's National Bullying Prevention Center: https://www.pacer.org/bullying/