This is a special time of year as we celebrate the achievements of our amazing youth - from prom to graduation, birthdays to end of school parties and summer break. Whether your kids are celebrating milestones, facing big changes, or just counting down to pool days, we want to support them to have fun and create memories, but also be safe.
Of all alcohol-related fatalities involving teens each year, approximately one-third take place during April, May, and June prom and graduation season. Research shows that youth who start drinking before the age of 15 are at much higher risk for developing alcohol use disorder later in life than those who begin drinking at age 21.
As parents and caring adults, it is our responsibility to help our children celebrate responsibly, especially since they and many of their friends, are underage. Talk with your child about substance use and take steps, such as those in the Informed Families' Safe Homes, Smart Parties Guide, to ensure that no alcohol or drugs are available at teen parties held at your home and discourage them to do so at friends' homes or events they attend.
*Plan in advance - check party plans and know who guests will be. Set limits to prevent an "open party."
*Agree to rules ahead of time - some suggested rules might be: no drugs including alcohol and tobacco - no leaving or returning to the party - no gate crashers.
*Know your responsibilities - responsible adults at a teen party must be visible and aware. It is illegal to serve or provide drugs including beer, wine, wine coolers, etc. to anyone under age 21.
*Supervision is key to keeping a party safe - if guests arrive acting like they are under the influence, notify their parents immediately. Anyone who leaves the party should not be allowed to return; this discourages leaving with intent to drink or use drugs elsewhere then returning to the party.
*Welcome calls from other parents to discuss party arrangements - notify neighbors that a party is planned and assure them it will be properly supervised.
*Plan snacks & activities - serve plenty of food and non-alcoholic drinks and plan fun activities such as movies, dancing, sports, that everyone can enjoy together. Unique and sober teen party suggestions offered by Love to Know can be found at:
https://www.lovetoknow.com/parenting/teens/safe-sober-grad-night-ideas
https://www.lovetoknow.com/parenting/teens/safe-sober-grad-night-ideas
*Feedback - after the party, talk with your teen to share observations and frustrations.
Safe and sober parties help teens celebrate in fun, low-risk ways. For tips on how to host safe teen parties, visit Informed Families at:
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